the life you were meant for,

I’d like to offer you a bridge between the life you’re living and

I can hold space in the liminal

embodiment

a space for

sexuality
somatics
medicine work
spirituality

the dakini within

A 6-part journey of rituals and practices to connect with your dark feminine essence and ignite your sexual energy. Embrace your power without fear, trust your intuition fully, and embody a balance of wild and graceful energy. This is a call to step into a container of sexual reclamation, personal transformation, and move more deeply towards the woman you to desire to become.

  • Guided Journey: Connect and awaken Dakini energy through breath, sound, movement, and stillness.

  • Embodiment Practice: Body Temple exploration and connecting to your highest self.

  • Embodiment Practice: Tantric Latihan exploration. Calling in a divine guide, mantra, symbol, and song.

  • Ceremony: Embody your cyclical nature through MCA (menstrual cycle awareness). Experience an ancient Red Tent ceremony and self-anointing.

  • Guided Ritual: Elemental exploration—Fire. Ignite your elemental power and unlock the sacral and solar plexus.

  • Guided Journey: Reconnect to the Womb, your sacred portal, and initiate the Dakini Within.

  • Women Who Desire…

    • to reconnect to their bodies

    • to feel confident & desirable

    • to create & bring their dreams to life instead of waiting for things to happen

    • to experience the witch within

    • to build a spiritual practice

    • to feel like a WOMAN!

    • a sacred space to transition into the next version of themselves

  • Scope
    6 sessions

    Session Format
    1:1 virtual meetings (60–75 minutes)

    Provided Materials
    Spirit Sex Guidebook included

    Time Frame
    All sessions are to be completed within 2 months of opening the container

    Communication
    WhatsApp will serve as our primary space for communication and support as needed

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womb awakening

A 6-part container of guided journey’s, rituals, and energetic activations to aid in healing and reconnecting to your Womb (reproductive system) wisdom. Rediscover your light feminine and the soft power that lies within your bodies temple. Learn to slow down, listen and deepen into embodiment. Practice cultivating, harnessing, and channeling your sexual energy so you are open and ready to receive the relationships you have been craving and the desires of your heart.

  • Guided Journey: Naming the Womb and Sounds of the Womb.

  • Guided Journey: Meeting your Faiy and Traveling through Unconditional Love

  • Ceremony: Healing and celebration of your Wombanhood

  • Guided Journey & Somatic Practice: Releasing past lovers and harmonizing the divine masculine and feminine within.

  • Embodiment Practice: Awakening sensual energy and orgasmic potential.

  • Guided Journey: Opening the portals to sacred energetic, emotional, and spiritual centers within your body and soul.

  • Woman who desire…

    • to treat their wombs/reproductive system with more reverence and love

    • to ignite their sexual energy and start having meaningful sex & relationships

    • to revive their imagination and vision—the ability to dream

    • to understand themselves more deeply & to hear the whispers from within

    • to heal their matrilineal line and reclaim ancestral prayers and wisdom

    • to bring creations and dreams to life from a place of alignment and truth

  • Scope
    6 sessions

    Session Format
    1:1 virtual meetings (60–75 minutes)

    Provided Materials
    Spirit Sex Guidebook included

    Time Frame
    All sessions are to be completed within 2 months of opening the container

    Communication
    WhatsApp will serve as our primary space for communication and support as needed

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1:1 mentorships

  • Women Who…

    • Are seeking a deeper connection to their sexuality & spirituality and want to be held during their exploration.

    • Feel lost and confused during a transition in their life and want support as they navigate change.

    • Feel the call to more sacredness in life and want a guide to show them the way to more mysticism.

    • Desire greater pleasure, presence and liberation and are ready to really look at themselves.

    • Are open to the paths of Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, Taoist Sexuality, and Medicine Work.

  • Transition & Check-in: Reflect on progress and challenges, drop into the body to feel what is alive and present.

    Exploration: Dive into personalized themes, tools, teachings, and rituals using alternative love’s experiential approach.

    Harvest: Receive grounded guidance to carry forward and utilize as integration support between sessions.

  • alternative love’s guidance and support is a blend of services through the following modalities:

    • Embodiment Rituals

    • Womb Awakening

    • Menstrual Cycle Awareness (MCA)

    • Somatic Therapy/Somatic IFS

    • Cannabis Therapy/Soul Archeology

    • Kundalini Activation

    • Theta Healing

    • Intuitive Journey’s

  • The container is fully virtual, allowing you to participate from anywhere in the world.

    • 3 or 6 month containers

    • 6 or 12 meetings respectively

    • 60 minute sessions via Zoom

    • Receive the Spirit Sex Guidebook

    • Tailored guidance and support in the areas of sexual and spiritual development.

    • Ongoing Support via WhatsApp, perfect for questions, reflections, or navigating challenges as they arise.

  • You are asked to commit to 1 embodiment practice at least 4x week during our container.

    This could be Tandava, Dance, or anything that calls to you.

    The intention is that you are devoting to your personal process both inside and outside our sessions.

3 or 6 month personalized containers designed to support deep transformation and alignment in your sexual and spiritual embodiment.

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Private embodiment sessions offer a guided exploration of sensuality, desire, and energetic intimacy. Together, we explore the language of the body through touch, breath, energetic connection, and consent-centered practices, allowing your experience to unfold with curiosity, safety, and reverence.

tantric embodiment sessions

  • These sessions are for individuals and couples who are curious about deepening their relationship to sensuality, intimacy, and embodied presence.

    You may feel called to this work if you are:

    • Wanting to reconnect with your body and sensual energy

    • Exploring desire, intimacy, or erotic expression in a more conscious way

    • Seeking to expand pleasure, connection, or emotional safety in intimacy

    • Interested in experiencing touch, breath, and energy work in a guided container

    • In a relationship and wanting to deepen trust, communication, and erotic connection together

    No prior experience is needed—only curiosity, openness, and a willingness to be present with your experience as it unfolds.

  • Sessions are 2–4 hours and are held in a grounded, intentional, and fully consent-led container.

    We begin by arriving into presence and establishing safety, intention, and boundaries. From there, the session unfolds in a guided progression of practices that may include breathwork, energetic attunement, sensory exploration, conscious touch, and stages of embodied and relational intimacy.

    Each session is tailored to your comfort level, nervous system capacity, and desires in the moment. Nothing is rushed or prescriptive—every experience is guided by ongoing consent, communication, and attunement.

    You are invited to move at your own pace, stay within your edges, and explore as deeply or as gently as feels right for you or your partnership.

  • In person session are available in: San Diego, San Francisco, and Austin

    Virtual sessions are available

  • What’s Included

    • 2–4 hour private session (individual or couples)
    • Guided embodiment and sensual exploration practices
    • Consent-led pacing and ongoing communication throughout
    • Breath, body, and energetic attunement work
    • Personalized facilitation based on your comfort and desires
    • Pre-session connection call to clarify intention, boundaries, and readiness
    • Post-session integration support via WhatsApp for light aftercare and reflection
    • A grounded, confidential, and held container for exploration

  • Your full presence, care, and deep attunement to your needs and desires. This is an opportunity to be your most authentic sexual self.

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what they’re saying

  • "Lulu is a powerful guide who helped me to bridge a very momentous time in my life. For so long I was disconnected from myself, and Lulu was a compassionate guide that helped me to connect to my sacred sexuality for the first time in an embodied way.

    All of my adult life, aside from one pregnancy, I had been on hormonal birth control. I had finally reached a point in my life where I realized just how blocked and cut-off from myself I really felt. I know each woman has their own path, and for me it was the right decision to come off of birth control. Learning about honoring the sacred feminine wasn't enough, I needed a way to actually feel it. Lulu helped to guide me into the fullness and sacredness of my own body. The same weekend I stopped taking birth control, I had a session/ceremony/ritual with Lulu as my guide. She was able to lead me to a place mentally, spiritually and physically where I felt truly in-touch with my feminine wildness and wisdom for the first time.

    Since then, Lulu has held space for me a few more times, and she continues to be able to hold me in the intensity of the energies that flow through me, to handle the rawness of what I have buried deep that's now come to the surface. If you long to reclaim the fullness of what it means to be an embodied woman, one who lives in the ebb and flow of their sacred sexuality, you couldn't ask for a better guide than Lulu."

    Kat Rose
    San Diego Embodiment Coaching

  • "The space that lulu holds is steady and sacred. Within the container of her loving presence and skillful guidance, I expanded my capacity to experience myself even more fully.

    Our work together left me feeling peaceful and empowered in mind, body, and spirit. Thank you dear lulu for your transformative service!"

    Pei-Ling Lee
    Pei-Ling Lee Coaching

  • "Working with Lulu has rapidly put me into contact with unconscious parts of myself, opening a healing process for patterns that have been with me most of my life.

    The gentleness of the cannabis journey is astounding; the subtle enhancement of sensation allows a deep drop into the subtle, while leaving me in control of my experience.

    Lulu complements this gentleness with unwavering presence, which has supported me in going deep into core woundings.

    I would heartily recommend her to anyone looking for a deeply embodied guide for personal transformation and healing."

    Enki Martinez
    Founder of Alchemy House Bay Area

  • "Lulu holds space in a way that makes you feel safe to let out your full, wild, dragon priestess self. I felt like I was transported to another time, experiencing a deep remembering of who I truly am and what our current world is missing. It also felt so nourishing to get the opportunity to connect with other women in circle.

    I left feeling more expanded, empowered, and connected to my heart and womb. I was also able to more easily let go of things I’ve been holding onto for a long time. I can’t recommend this circle enough. It is truly so special and you’ll leave with practical tools to deepen your independent practices as well."

    Sarah S.
    Private Therapist and Medicine Provider

  • "Working with Lulu was such an amazing experience to help me connect with my body and get me out of my mind.

    I left every season releasing old patterns that no longer served me and feeling so much lighter."

    Ryan S.
    Ryan Spence Coaching

  • “When I met with Lulu, I was a few months postpartum and shared my desire to reconnect with myself. A new mother, I did not have the time to take a vacation or attend a weekend retreat as I once would have. Lulu suggested her Dakini Within offering as an opportunity to take a retreat within myself, and that she would be my guide. I had few expectations going into our container, and was wonderfully surprised by all I encountered. Lulu was a constant source of support, inspiration, and love. I discovered a well of untapped emotion and was given the space to process the magical, challenging, and profound transformation that is becoming a mother. If you are curious, I encourage you to follow the feeling, and trust Lulu. Her deep care for her clients is immediately felt, and she has an uncanny ability to adapt and honor the magic that arises in each and every moment.”

    Haylee B.

  • “After The Dakini Within I have a deeper belief in my magic!”

    Juliana Ramos deCastano